Friday, June 01, 2007

I have been following the blog of one of my friends very closely for a long time. Though i do agree that i am a kaypoh sai, a part of me is also concerned about how people's life is doing.

There are some perspectives which i do not agree on, and it is not directed at anyone in particular.

I do not agree that anyone to love anyone to the extent that you live your life for the other person. I try to rationalise that i may not know what relationship is because i haven't met anyone whom i love. Perhaps but it's hard for me to visualise myself to love the person to death. That's why i cannot agree with actions like losing sleep over someone, losing your focus over someone.

Thus when someone has total control over your actions, emotions and sleep, then there is serious problem with you. Simply because other people don't own our life and being master of our own body, the only logical and simplest thing any human being can do is to assume control of our body.

It's not that i dun understand how heart wrenching a failed relationship feels. It's just that if it fails, you cry until u go blind will not salvage the situation. Then jolly well feel sad for the demised relationship for a week or two and bloody hell move on with ur life!

Seriously, there are more things for us to be concerned about than just our own relationship. It's not merely chasing the dollar ( i don't want to be seen as superficial). There are issues that warrant our attention more. I would rather save my tears for the poor elderly who need to take cleaning jobs to earn a living, or more serious social problems.

Very often, we tend to be very myopic in the way we see things, because it's always ME, ME and ME. We can never get out of the whirlpool of problems when we always focus on ourselves. Not to act noble and save the world, just need to learn to grow up.

I bet all these need not be taught by any god. You just need some common sense